I'll paint the setting for you. I'm sitting in my living room in this big sunny window on my two chase lounges folding laundry listening to pandora - missy higgins right now. And I find myself thinking about the 'curse of the house wife' This is what I term matching and folding socks. The Most thankless job a woman can do.I can't help but think. This is what my life has comedown to. The most thankless job a human can have is matching and folding socks. However, I realize that while I do these mindless, thankless chores such as socks, empting the dishwasher, change the sheets, vacuuming, is when I can think and clear my head. So maybe it's not so bad. Maybe even therapeutic. Just kidding. It's still a curse.
So I'm thinking about my coversation with a client I had yesterday. She asked me, "how do I take care of myself so that I can keep taking care of others?" Good question. Although I don't see myself as taking care of others really. My answer as lame as it may seem was only two things I could think of telling her. 1) my job, when I'm at work I have less stress. I have to be calm and positive or else I can't get the person to become calm and relax. 2) This little blog. I enjoy putting my thoughts down in writing. WHY? I had no clue. And why on the internet? Why not in a journal that only I will read? - After discussing it with her I concluded, it was after my pschycologist had me write a letter to a Dr. I felt did me really wrong I realized the value in putting your thoughts down and be willing to give them to someone else. I write it down it helps organize my thoughts and then I can let them go. It's kind of freeing.
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